Christmas Date Night Questions

Looking to cozy up with a special someone this holiday?

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, getting to know someone new, or happily single, the holiday season certainly a romantic time - I mean, snowy weather, cuddling up next to the fire, great food… what more could you ask for on a date night?

This year, Gather partnered up with our friends at Heart of Dating (a faith-based community with dating tools for Christians) to write an incredible Christmas date night conversation!

It starts with fun questions to get the conversation started as you warm up, and then covers the pillars of the Christmas season (hope, love, joy, and peace). You can even try the questions when you light an Advent wreath!

The great thing about this conversation is that it doesn’t have to be used in a date night - you can easily ask the questions to friends or family members. Plus, the questions are great for people you’ve just met or people you’ve known for years.


Lucky for you, we’ve pulled a few of our favorite questions from the conversation and added them below. So snuggle up, grab someone special, and ask away! Remember, the full conversation on Gather has 20 questions :)

Christmas Date Night Questions

Warming up: What is something that you think gets misunderstood about Christmas?

Talk about hope: If you could wish for one miracle right now in this moment, what would it be?

Talk about love: What does giving mean for you? What is one of the most meaningful gifts you've given?

Talk about joy: If you could invent a Christmas tradition, what would it be?

Talk about peace: Have you ever been in a true winter wonderland? Where was it, and what did it look like?


Quick! Head to Gather to try this limited-time only conversation. You won’t be disappointed!

P.S. Heart of Dating is giving Gather members a discount to join their Yearly Conference in Atlanta this February! Click here to learn more, and don’t forget to use the code gather10 for the discount. You can find out more about Heart of Dating on instagram.

Madison McClung