A Question Each Day of the Month for Couples

Hello, 2023! What are your goals for the year? Did you set any resolutions?

(Here at Gather, we’ve been growing increasingly fond of couples-resolutions. Sitting with your partner and setting goals or resolutions together is a great way to connect.)

Regardless of whether you made resolutions for yourself, for your relationship, or no resolutions at all, setting a goal of connecting each day with your partner is a fun project for the new year!

At Gather, we compiled 365 questions (that’s right a whole year’s worth!!!) for couples to ask each other that help you stay close and learn new things about each other, no matter how long you’ve been together. Each day when you’re having morning coffee or sitting at the dinner table, pull out the Gather app and ask your partner the question of the day. To get you started, we’ve pulled all questions for the month of January. Try a question each day of the month as you begin the new year together!

Daily Questions for Couples: From January 1st to January 31st

These daily questions for couples are a great way to stay close! Ask your partner one question each day for January.

  1. What's a resolution you have for 2023? How can I help you achieve it?

  2. Do you think my name matches my personality? Why or why not?

  3. Talk about something adventurous you've done in the past.

  4. If we had to pick "our song" as a couple, what would it be? Why?

  5. What was the best vacation you've ever taken? What made it the best?

  6. If you had funds to start your own business this year, what would you do & why?

  7. What movie or TV couple do you think we're like, and why?

  8. If you could be any age for the rest of your life, which age would you choose and why?

  9. What's one thing you're stressed about in the week ahead? What's one thing you're looking forward to?

  10. Describe me in 5 words!

  11. In your opinion, what's the best seat in a movie theatre? What about at a concert and on an airplane?

  12. If we could learn to cook one new meal together, what would it be?

  13. What activity instantly calms you?

  14. Do you believe we are alone in the universe? Do you think there's life on other planets?

  15. In your opinion, what is one thing I'm weirdly talented at?

  16. What's something you rediscovered lately? A hobby, a movie, a skill?

  17. What do you think is one of our greatest strengths as a couple?

  18. Talk about someone who really impacted your life.

  19. What is your favorite number and why?

  20. What is something that makes you feel self-conscious, and why?

  21. Share one thing I did that made you feel loved this week.

  22. What would be the ideal way to spend your birthday from beginning to end?

  23. What is something that drew you to me when we first met?

  24. What animal are you most afraid of and why?

  25. What is one unpopular opinion that you have?

  26. Do you believe in love at first sight? Why or why not?

  27. What's an absolutely essential part of your daily routine? Why is it so important to you?

  28. What's one thing from childhood that you still have memorized?

  29. What do you think would bring us closer together as a couple?

  30. If our relationship was a book, what would it be titled? Why?

  31. What's something new you learned about the world, yourself, or me this month?


Each day of January, ask one of the above daily questions for couples! Spark meaningful and fun daily conversations with these daily questions. If you liked having a question each day for the month as a couple, check out the Gather app, where we have a question for each day of the YEAR to answer together! Get couples questions, date night conversation starters, & more on the Gather conversation starter app.

Madison McClung