Unique “Getting to know you" questions that actually work!

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Why is it always so fun to get to know a new person?

Because when you really get to know someone, you usually realize how awesome they are - and you get to showcase how awesome YOU are as well.

There’s excitement in the process of learning about someone new while simultaneously sharing what makes you unique. Whether you just matched on a dating app, just joined a new team at work, or you’re sitting at the table on your first date, a good set of Getting to Know You questions can come in handy.

The issue is that most of these icebreakers are so… what’s the word? Boring!!

The truth is, hearing about someone’s day is probably not the best way to really get to know them. Plus, if you’re actually trying to assess whether there’s any potential for a deeper relationship, you need to go past the classic “What do you do for a living” questions.

So we’ve done the hard work for you. We’ve collected some of the top Getting to Know You questions from the Gather app that REALLY help you learn about someone new.

These conversation starters are great for first dates, corporate icebreakers, dating app matches, and everything in between. Each question actually reveals something about that person’s personality, past experiences, or future goals - but in a really fun way!


Unique Getting to Know You Questions that ACTUALLY work:

Get to know each other with these great icebreakers:

First date icebreakers
  1. What's a trend you really can't stand?

  2. Share one of the best gifts you've ever received.

  3. You're only allowed to listen to one song for the rest of your life. What song do you pick?

  4. What is something you've tried but would never do again?

  5. Is there a story behind your name? Share it.

  6. What is something you're weirdly good at?

  7. Share the worst travel experience you've had.

  8. What is your favorite part of your daily routine?

  9. You must delete every app on your phone but five. Which apps do you keep?

  10. Was there a bedtime story you loved as a kid?

  11. What is the weirdest thing you've eaten?

  12. If you could learn any skill immediately, what would it be?

  13. What is one thing you like about being your age?

  14. What is something you've changed your mind about?

  15. What is your very first impression of me in this moment?


If you liked these, get the full Getting to Know You pack on the Gather app, with 100 carefully crafted questions to REALLY get to know each other in a fun way! Plus, get access to thousands of amazing conversation starters, dating icebreakers, party games, and more with the Gather subscription - awarded “App of The Day” & only available on iOS!

Madison McClung